A Better Wife Because of the Best Husband

How dimentional is your god? If you serve money, it is purely a transactional dimention. If your god is status, you’re stuck with the admiration and acknowledgment of others. If you make your marriage your god, you could argue that it meets multiple needs, but, in essence, we marry because we recognize life with this… Continue reading A Better Wife Because of the Best Husband

A Better Wife in the Long Run

I love that longest married couple’s dance at weddings. I love when the years creep north of 20 and the couples get fewer and fewer on the dance floor. It’s always incredible when the last couple put there has been married for more than 50 years. It’s beautiful to witness a love that has lasted.… Continue reading A Better Wife in the Long Run

A Better Wife in Conflict

I hope this series encourages people. I hope it spurs women to be the wives God calls us to be. I hope it brings clarity to our roles in marriage. But I also hope women aren’t discouraged. I know we’re talking about this “better wife.” I also know its easy to fall short of this… Continue reading A Better Wife in Conflict

A Better Wife in Intimacy

I don’t believe in the concept of soul mates. Before you jump ship and assume I don’t solely love my husband, hear me out. There is nothing biblical about God designing one particular person for you to marry. It is, in fact, contrary to grace to expect another imperfect human being to meet our own… Continue reading A Better Wife in Intimacy

A Better Wife in Friendship

I love my single friends. They remind me to serve others and be involved with people outside the four walls of my home. I love my dating friends. They remind me of what that spark and excitement looks like in relationships. But I gotta tell you, there’s no friends like your fellow wife friends. There’s… Continue reading A Better Wife in Friendship

Jesus in the Street, Freak in the Sheets: how Song of Solomon is making me a better wife

I’ve been reading through my bible starting in the old Testament. As Ecclesiastes came to a close and Song of Solomon came up, I determined I was going to see what God’s heart is in this obscene book. I read through looking up in my notes all the oddities but it still seemed way past… Continue reading Jesus in the Street, Freak in the Sheets: how Song of Solomon is making me a better wife